Ok most folks want to know where I made the nick up. I needed a more origional nick than Grim many many many many many many many... ok a whole lot of years ago. And much as I am now I tend to have a Grim sense of things. Some call it realistic. But I didn't want to just be Grim... though that is what most people call me. So I wanted to be like grim. Or related to grim. This is where I came up with la for like. (thank you massive command of many languages. ok not really.) and so kin. Cause I'm from the south and when ya got kin.. well ya can't go ta makin babies cause they come out funny.